Father

Taking a man to court for child support is such an ugly thing to do. I don't agree with lots of things, but I understand the important reasons. In this economy $25.00 per week cannot support a child? Lets take a look at the raw facts. Its mommy's BABY and Daddy's MAYbe, right. A man will never be sure a child is his until the DNA test is done, right> (can you imagine how many women pulled one over on a man before the 99.9999999999% DNA test) Any how thank God we have that test. Lots of so=called daddy's (let say SEMENOIDS) have no excuse. It take a Male to become a Daddy and A Father to love, support and rare a child, right? If he want to be honestly proud of little Timmy or sweet Sara. Stick around and cry the tears of joy when you hear "I LOVE YOU DADDY". THAN FIGHT THE LOSING PROJECTION BATTLE

I mentioned the court situation is ugly! Well it is, even if you didn't plan to get caught, shit happens even when all the precautions are taken. Running and denying doesn't help. How can most men commit without force? By been responsible and Man Up. In other words the courts forced what should be. I do believe it work out cheaper (for all the cheap-steakers) when you WORK WITH the mother of your child. Most woman just want to know you got her back. You will be there in some ways.

WOMEN then question the male psyche? Why the child get left behind, when the woman get left. Only a strong and responsible person will do the right thing.

Keep in mind baby grows and develop minute by minute and you can only blame it on mom miserableness for so long. Children are smarter than parents (tho I must say not Wiser), they see through the bullshits and camouflages.
Lets keep it real fathers, children respect you more when you accept your flaw and not pass on the blame . They don't mind knowing the imperfect father, but loathes the perfect bullshitter of a father.

Without a man's seed a woman cannot bring
forth life so lets change the DADDY status to the FATHERly journey. God knows you are more loved for your idiosyncrasies as: a boy friend, lover, husband & a friend but never as a lousy and cheap DADDY.